Monday, August 27, 2007

We keep getting bigger

Casa Corazón keeps adding kids. This week two more have joined the family bringing the total up to 37, the same size as Amor y Vida. Here are the latest additions:




On Friday, INFHA, which is the Honduras social services department, delivered Misael. He is 5 months old and HIV + for now. Often children born of HIV+ mothers test positive prior to their first birthday but do not actually become infected. Several infants have come to the casa in the past and later tested negative at their one year exam and have been placed in other homes. A few of the kids ended up staying here even though they turned out to be negative. It will be 7 months before we know for sure if he is really positive or only testing positive due to his mothers antibodies in his blood.



This is Nataly, who arrived at the casa today. She is 6 years old and appears to be in very good health. She obviously have been living with a family in good conditions before coming here but I do not know all the details. He has adapted very well and is playing with all the other kids right away and no crying as often happens when older children are brought here.







Gustav seems to be hanging in there. He is the skinniest, most mal-nourished child I have ever seen. When they bathe him, he really looks like photos taken at the concentration camps when they were liberated. He is literally skin and bones with very little tissue. He can stand up if holding onto something or someone and can walk if you hold onto his hands like an infant just learning to walk, but he cannot balance himself to walk on his own. I think it is because he is too top heavy with his head being about 1/3 - 1/2 of his total body weight. His grandfather and aunt came to visit him twice since he has been here which makes him happy.

Monday, August 20, 2007

Sunday Bingo

Sunday was Bingo time for the kids. They play using cards with pictures of animals. When they have the matching picture on their card, they cover it with a rock. Something different to pass the time when there is no school.



New boy in the casa. They accepted child #35 on Saturday. This is Gustav. He is extremely thin and malnourished. He cannot walk on his own either. They said he is 3 but he is older than that judging by his teeth which include molars. I don't know his whole story at this time, but I will update it when I find out his details.

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Article from Honduras This Week

The following is from an article in Honduras This Week which provides some insight to the problems here:
50% of the Honduran population is 15 years old and younger (as of January 2006). The average woman is 15 years old when she gives birth to her first child. In 2006, 80% of all birth certificates issued in the country did not name a father. These are some of the disturbing facts that will be highlighted in a live, online “web briefing” conducted by projecthonduras.com, in partnership with the University of Iowa, on Friday, August 24.
Reasons for this lack of family structure in Honduras include: large numbers of men (and an increasing number of women) leaving for the United States and Spain; high unemployment rates and underemployment; an overall failing of the moral structure of the society in that there is no longer any stigma to having a child outside of marriage; lack of education; lack of a loving, supportive environment within the family which leads to young women having babies in order to have someone to love; and a pervasive macho attitude of wanting to have as many children by as many women as possible. Hondurans (in lower economic levels) tend to think of children as financial assets, rather than as liabilities. In the U.S., Europe, and among wealthier populations in Honduras, it is understood that having a child entails a level of financial burden (education, food, clothing, etc.). The poor tend to think of a child as a financial retirement plan... the child will be expected to support the mother when she is too old to work. Maquilas (garment factories) generally employ women ages 18 to 30. At 30, women are considered too old, too slow, and are dismissed. So, if a woman in Honduras has her first child when she is 15, by the time she “retires” her child will be ready to start working. Most women over 30 tend to sell tortillas on the streets or do other things from their homes rather than work for a company. They rely on their children to work and provide for them. It is this attitude that leads women to want as many children as possible.
The consequences of the lack of family structure include child abuse. This abuse, especially sexual abuse, is the most common problem. Men who are not related to the children in the home feel entitled to use them sexually. Women are hesitant to file police reports or try to protect their children for fear of reprisals from the men, especially physical violence (now estimated to exist in more than 30% of all homes) and abandonment. Serial “marriages” are common with three or four men coming into the home over the years and fathering their “own” children. This leaves the other children at greater risk of abandonment and abuse. In addition, there exists a very weak legal system in Honduras, a lack of police in the communities, a high level of violence, few options for the courts to place abused children in safe environments, and pressure from the government to return children to their families. This, in an effort to not present statistics to the international community that reflect the true situation of the children. Each time a child is removed from the family unit, the “count” goes up on the problem of children at social risk, and the “image” of Honduras is damaged.

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Birthday Photos


Here are some of the photos from the birthday party they had for me on Tuesday.


Me with Isaac, David, Josué (the baby), Antonio and Dania.












They even had dancing afterwards with all the kids and ladies. This is me with Mama Laura.


Three of the Tias, Maribel, Nilda and Diana with baby Josué (8 mos.) the newest and youngest child in the casa.



This photo is of the four boys living in the casa with me (L to R): Josué (19), Jonathan (10), Milton (15) and Maynor (12). The guy on the far right is David who is the son of one of the workers and he was just playing cards with the boys but does not live with us.

Josué took us all out to eat at a Honduran restaurant as their celebration for my birthday and he insisted on paying as his gift to me.

Sunday, August 5, 2007

No more English for now

On Friday, sister Eva, the only English speaking sister here, left with Masbely and Sandra for a two week trip. After she returns, she will only be here for four days before going to the U.S. for her annual two months of fundraising
The two summer volunteers from Notre Dame, Karla and Riane left yesterday. They are in the photo with almost all of the kids from Casa Corazón. They were both very sad to be leaving after 8 weeks of getting very attached to the kids. They were the last of the English speakers, so now it is just me. There is a vacant room in the visitors casa if anyone is interested. :)

Friday, August 3, 2007

Isaac update


Isaac is really coming along well and is adapting to living at the casa. He is now eating a lot and able to keep most of the food down without throwing up. He got to go to Pizza Hut with some of the older kids and some visitors and he wore the little hat they gave him for several days. His family came to visit him last week and that made him very happy and ever since he has started playing with the other kids and talking whereas before he was very quiet and always stayed alone not playing with the others. His grandmother, brother Carlos (blue shirt on the left) and uncle Jonathan (yellow shirt on the right) came to visit. We found out that his father lives near Tela somewhere but could not take care of the boys. His mother went to the U.S. three years ago and abandoned the boys. They heard from her last year and she was in Minnesota but do not know if she is still there. Isaac's brother is Carlos who is 12 and is also HIV+. He asked if he could move here to live with Isaac and Masbely, the director of the casa, agreed. Carlos will be moving here in October after Josué moves out and Carlos will live in the house with me and the three oldest boys.
Josué is 19 and currently is the oldest boy in the casa. He decided to stop going to school this year and got a job working in a condiment factory. He was told that he could continue living in the casa until he was 21 if he stayed in school but if he stopped going to school he would have to move out on October 1st. He still chose to drop out of school and there is not much they could do to change the mind of a 19 year old. Casa Corazón will continue to provide the medications for Josué after he moves out and they will continue to be his family but their philosophy has been to prepare the kids to live on their own once they finish school and not to continue to live here as adults so they have room for other needy children. So Josué will leave on October 1st and new Carlos will move in.